Comments on: Real Love Takes Work!

By: Traces of my LIPstick

Traces of my LIPstick — Thu, 09 Jul 2009 23:30:28 +0000

I agree with you all on different points. I truly just think that love should flow easy. When u love some one u know. When u are truly deeply in love u just know it and u feel it u dont have to force ur self to do anything and real love is hard to take away….well maybe thats me. I love hard!!!Yes in a relationship there will be scarfices and changes that need to be made, because everyone must adapt, but real love just flows and u can see real love shining through….i agree with u all…good points

By: Z

Wed, 08 Jul 2009 18:52:21 +0000

I agree and have been through what you are saying Ms. K, but through it all you must be able to love through the frustrations and remember that, that little time period is just what it is, a small piece of the big picture and comes with the relationship. But we both know how that can be a disaster with the spoiledness in some of us.

By: Z

Wed, 08 Jul 2009 17:38:42 +0000

I so agree with you. Often people forget that love should be blissful and priceless, not stressful and costly

By: Ms. K

Ms. K — Wed, 08 Jul 2009 15:27:21 +0000

Real love takes work, not only work but hard work. I understand what Ms. Lake is saying in regards to relationships only being hard because of egos and attitudes. But in my opinion that is what makes them hard to handle. You have to learn how to adapt to your mates mood swings. That is hard, because as women we want everything to go our way, and when the first sign of turmoil arise, we are passt pissed and ready to end everything. Real love takes work, if you are not working to maintain your relationship, it will not last.

By: Ms. Lake

Ms. Lake — Wed, 08 Jul 2009 12:56:37 +0000

I can totally agree and relate to this. Yes, real love takes work and a whole lot of other things. I think people often forget or skip out on that part of the relationship! People are lazy and want to do nothing but expect everything to be given to them on a silver platter! Now what i do believe love should be easy whoever said love is hard and hurts was full of shit! What I mean by this is a person should make it easy to love them! Im not gone ask you to move mountains, cross valley, and give me things that are not yours in the first place sun, moon, and stars! All I want is time attention and affection! I believe the best way to make a relationship work is give time and show love and appreciation! If you are doing one like you should the others will fall into place. Relationships are not hard, we just make them harder than what they should be with the attitudes and egos!