So You Chose A Married Man!!! Know The Rules
It’s time to take this in a different direction! We are here to talk about sex, love, relationships, etc. Me personally I don’t believe in really addressing the same topics or typical situations. Now I know people really have mixed feelings about this, and what you are about to read may not be pleasant to your beliefs, but a relationship is a relationship no matter how ugly the situation, and after recent public events I feel it may be time to address this situation as well. I was recently asked what to expect from a married man. Me personally, I say don’t, but things happen in life that we cannot plan and sometimes we can’t help who we love; and I’m sure we all have been in a situation with an individual who was married. I’m not here to be judgmental but I do want you to ask yourself why you are in this situation or want to be in this situation, and you must realize that there are no positive reasons for dating a married individual; and if you have commitment or self esteem issues you may find this to be desirable, and sometimes it may just seem that there are no good single men available! Always make sure you have something to gain and do not mess with anyone who has nothing to lose. Forbidden relationships are often filled with desire, suspense, and excitement so outside of those basic things make sure you have something to gain whether its money, rent , tuition, shopping, trips, or jobs, I don’t care what it is just make sure it’s something that you like and enjoy. You never know what may happen in this situation so make sure he has something to lose as well. I always say keep your options open as well and date other men if your “boyfriend” is married. Men are jealous and even though he is married you are expected to be with only him. When you are doing things that he doesn’t like it’s going to be a problem; this is when you remind him or let him know that if certain things were to get exposed he will be at liberty to lose his job, family, and friends as well. Although I don’t suggest it, you never know when you may have to use the “I will call your wife card”, don’t actually do it but don’t let him think you won’t either. That’s one of the many ways to get what you want and keep him in line as well. Know all your information, find out everything there is to know about him, family and friends. Know where he works, the wife works, where they live, who the closest friends and family members are, where the kids go to school, what church and local hangouts. Don’t become a stalker, you gain nothing by driving by his house and job; but you need to know this information to protect yourself and your investments. Because you never know what is going to happen, make sure you have some type of incriminating evidence or information, so when the time comes when he decide to jump stupid or get mad he will see that you are not playing either. Now after saying the above information, don’t forget that a man married or not loves his family! I know crazy right, because if it was true he wouldn’t step out right? Wrong. There is nothing more important to a man than his family. If he is not able to care and provide for his family he does not feel like a man. So watch how you approach that situation because they will not let anything or anyone harm their family which can be an advantage and disadvantage at the same time. (Continue reading on the next page)
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I came across this blog – interesting read
Love this Ms.Lake as I love all of your reads. You and I know the thrills of forbidden situations and there pleasures, but there should always be rules to everything and standards.
Ms. Lake……………………. You know you have hit the monkey on the head with this blog. I would first like to say that this blog should be addressed to women getting involved with men who are already in relationships. Forget the hype about no ring on a finger cause the same apply. As single people, you should know that you deserver much more than being the person on the side. You have feelings just like that person that you are dealing with significant other. I will say that I don’t approve of being with someone just to use them (I believe in KARMA), but hell if you not getting anything worth while out if it, you do need to move on. If you are in it for the sex alone, move on, find another person. It’s not worth it in the end.
Ms Lake is totally right, either that married man or woman is going to tell you that they are going to leave their spouse just to keep you tame, but in reality they are not. Their family means more to them than you ever would. No individual will leave their entire life behind just to start over with a fling. Please know that at any moment they can quit you and you will be the one left hurting while they are on a picnic with their family, NOT THINKING OF YOU!!! (NO THIS HAS NEVER HAPPENED TO ME, CAUSE A MARRIED MAN IS NOT ATTRACTIVE TO ME)
Just set some standards for your life. Don’t go out looking for a person that you can not have in your life all the time without having to share them with anyone. KNOW YOUR WORTH!!!!!
Thanks and Z like you said there are always rules and standards to everything! now whether we follow them or believe the apply to our situation or not is another thing! This is for everyone who deals with a married individual both men and women! I try and keep from saying man but as a woman I write from a woman view and it may appear this is for one gender but it is not..its for both! Ms. K I believe in Karma as well and what goes around comes around 7 times harder! and sometimes ppl do tend to forget that their “boyfriend” wife does have feelings as well and knowing your own worth will take you a long way. Dont settle or be anyone 2nd choice!
I’VE BEEN IN MANY RELATIONSHIPS WHERE THE MAN WAS IN A LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP OR MARRIED. BOTH SITUATIONS ARE BAD SITUATIONS BECAUSE WHEN U GET IN IT, YOU KNOW THE SITUATION. AFTER MONTHS OF DEALING WITH AN INDIVIDUAL U TEND TO CATCH FEELINGS. U CAN’T CONTROL IT. SOMETIMES U MAY BE THE ONE THAT KEEPS THAT PERSON HAPPY OR MAY BE DOING SOMETHING THAT THEY DON’T SEE AT HOME. FOR INSTANCE, I JUST BROKE IT OFF WITH A DUDE THAT WAS WITH SOMEONE FOR 9 YEARS. I GOT PREG. I DECIDED NOT TO KEEP THE BABY ( PERSONAL REASONS) AND HE WAS UPSET. WHY???? U GOT A WOMAN AT HOME. I AM NOT HER. BUT ALL IN ALL HE MAY HAVE SEEN SOMETHING IN ME THAT HE DIDN’T IN HER BC THEY DON’T HAVE KIDS TOGETHER. WHEN HE NEEDS TO TALK HE CALLS ME.
** IT IS POSSIBLE FOR HIM TO CARE, BUT LOVE WAS ANOTHER THING FOR ME. I DIDN’T THINK HE LOVED ME BC HE STILL HAS HER.
**KARMA IS A BITCH AND I AM SO DONE WITH THAT. I WANT TO BE ABLE TO HAVE MY OWN MAN AND FAMILY ONE DAY. I JUST HOPE HE DOESN’T DO ME LIKE MY EX DID HIS LADY.
I have been on this sides of this fence. I have been the “other woman” before and I knew my place, told myself not to get attached but it didnt work. The dude would treat me better than he would treat his girl and i guess it gave me this sense of false hope. He would call or text me while he was with her. I was working in the mall and they were together one night. I of course didnt say anything but both times he walked by my store he would leave her, come in and talk to me like she wasnt even there. Even though he never got out of place with me, I was just like even if he was to leave her, wouldn’t he just try to treat me the same if we were ever to have something??
Then I have had someone on the side as well. When I first met dude he was just one of those people that you would always run into and so eventually we ended up having a conversation. We had this automatic connection and we were outside a grocery store talking for almost 3 hrs. I had a man he had a girl so we said we would just be friends….needless to say it didnt work. He broke up with his girlfriend to be with me, but I couldnt do the same. I can honestly say that I do LOVE this other dude. Its not just sexual. He has been there and given me things that I havent been able to get from anywhere else but I’m so scared to give my all to him just because of the whole Karma thing. All I can think of is what if he does the same thing to me?
ms lake i appreciate your art work, the second page of this blog is very much true, the first page quite honestly, if a chick did that to guy he would have to be the stupidest dumbass ignorant foolish pitiful droplockin ass bich of the century. now im 22 and i havent been on this earth very long and i havent been in a lot of situations but ive learned from the best. and fact is its a main rule that this is a none factor so she dosent know shit about me. she dont call me, i call her, u dont drive by house period. dont ask questions about my family, when im with u im with u. dont worry about my wife. see women dont understand dagerous of a game it is to play with a mans mind when comes to family and image. ive seen three try to hold some personal shit over a mans head to get him to act right, it didnt work. u see men arent as smart as women, true, but a man agressiveness exceeds limitation meaning HE WILL FUCK OVA YO ASS IF NEED BE!!!!!!!! when man says two words (FUCK IT) thats yo ass. cause u have taken to another level. that mcnair situation was tragic but the chick was white or mexican or wat ever, she wasnt black. some men r dumbasses and dont know how to handle there business. thats why the woman gets the upper hand. i was always taught, if u gonna play that game, do wat the next is afraid of, tell the truth, u dont let her make the rules, u make the rules, because shes gonna break them. ive seen with my on eyes, she said then after the pound game starts she gets attached, they cant help it, jealousy will show its face on her because of wat she dosent have, some know there role 90% dont. the comment of the man is jealous, again only dumbass stupid pitiful stanky bitchass mutha ficka would be jealous why, U GOT A WIFE!!!!!!!!! STUPID. the side chick wants wat she has, someone to cuddle with and talk to. u not supposed to talk to her unless we setting something up. other than that dont freakin call me period!!!! tell her the truth. and if all else fall through, how many women really leave there husbands, especialy if hes a good provider. shes not gonna want to see her kids effected by this. that is agood woman. u tellin her wassup may only get ass whooped like ive many of times. basically ladies your getting the short end of the stick , because if u get involved with a man that knows wat hes doing and u try to pull some side ways shit, ive seen first hand experience at my job, my boss ruined this chicks life fo real. do ya homework. youll have some goons at ya apt waitn on yo dumbass behind some bull shit that could have been avoided only if u knew your role, but the blog was nice
ms lake i just put 2 and 2 together u stated and i qoute “but things happen in life that we cannot plan and sometimes we can’t help who we love; and turned right around and said and i qoute “Do not give him your heart and do not fall in love with him. Whatever reason you choose to be with him, keep that in mind and remain as emotionally detached from him as you possibly can.” the as you possibly can part means that shes still gonna be attached some wat correct? at the same time you said dont give him your heart, clearly we can see here that a woman no matter wat case will be attched in some shape form or fashion. so with that being said how can a woman follow thoughs guide lines when its built on a front because she wont be able to do any of those things if she truly cares for him. now remember she made the rules but shes the one ATTACHED!!!!
IM THE MAN
DONT LET THAT BEYONCE MOVIE (OBSESSED) DO TO YOUR HEADS LADYS, ITS A DAGEROUS GAME OUT THERE
Nick I respect your point of view but you have some much to learn about life, love, people, and relationships! No one wants to sit up and talk about the ex or current but reality of the situation is it happens, not just by women by men as well so if you are in a situation where the other person is involved married or not then guess what you too are bound to talk about the other person. No I think its the men who dont understand this is a dangerous game more than women and its not that some dont know their place it gets ugly when the man starts promising them forever and all that other stuff! No matter what the situation is or appear to be no one and i mean no one wants to feel used! and that’s what get ppl shot! I dont say the chic in the McNair situation is crazy bc you dont know what he was telling her, its too many sides to that story and we will never know. Ive seen situations where the man gets more attached than the woman, see men can dish out so much but cant take shit once the little ego and pride has been hurt! and baby all men are jealous they could have 2 wives at home and if you are still someone that they consider theirs then guess what they want you only committed to them. its more of a power thing than just mad or jealous bc you are with another man. and I say dont fall in love bc when you are in this situation he will give you things you probably have never had before thats why i say dont give him your heart bc you will never have his!
The man is supposed to always be in control and he does this by being honest. The problem is that some men actually front like they want to be with the other women. He should not do this. He has to let the other women know the business. We are only fucking!!! PERIOD. I contact you, you don’t contact me. Now this sounds like some bull, and a lot of women won’t go for this but guess what!!! A lot will. So if you can’t be cut throat and tell a women how it’s gonna be, then don’t do anything. A women can’t help it if she likes you/attracted to you. You should not spend enough time with her for her to get emotionally attatched. It should be not frequent and unpredictable. Thats just real talk. But obviously it’s best not to cheat at all period. We all meet our maker one day and will have to answer for our sins.
SO SO SO TRUE CHICK…U really nipped it in the bud with this one. You know we talk about these type of things all the time….I agree totally if you choose to engaged in that type of situation….You really have to be a strong minded and very nonchalant woman to engage in something of the sort, bc your average woman gets emotionally attached and that is a big NO NO…women are emotional create and go off emotions….when you engage in this type of situation, you have to relate to the male perspective/mind frame….and by all means, if you are not benefiting from it/ it is not worth your wild, YOUR IN IT FOR LOVE, then that would qualify you as a dum ass…you have to play by the rules of the game if thats what you signed up for…. But at the same time I FEEL LIKE MARRIED MEN ARE 1000% OFF LIMITS……
As far as people commenting about relationships/boyfriend girlfriend, In my personal opinion, those do not matter. A boyfriend/girlfriend relationship is a MAN MADE IDEA and does not matter on paper nor in the eyes of GOD. It is only a title and there is never a check box for it on paper…As long as you are a SINGLE PERSON, SINGLE MEANING AN UNMARRIED PERSON, dealing with another single person then I feel as though it is fair game….When you talk about a MARRIAGE, that is something totally different, and that is SACRED and not to be touched….That is when it becomes a sin…..Even if you think about touching a married man, you are lusting in your heart, and that is just as much of a sin as actually doing it….
ms lake clearly noted but u have to understand, your refering to them dumbass men, im refering to the men who know wat they r doing, trye said the same thing i did, u dont call me i call u. period. thats the rules, if u follow that, then all is good.getting attached, thats for the weak minded negros who new to this not true to this. u can say wateva but at the end of the day hes going home to his wife and your going home alone. me having to know about life love and relationship means nothing because i know about all that, men and women have choices. u choose to put your in something that u know wont last forever, thats your fault u play this game know that people get injured. my feelings aint because i have a wife, not me metaphoricaly speaking. saying that men dont understand this is a dagerous game is crap, because yawl the one that put the restaining orders on us. so who scarted of who, that chic with mcnair was crazy, cause she killed him and herself if that aint crazy i wanna know wat is. she could have just left, dont matter wat he told her obviously she got played and he did too. no matter how many sides of a story, do have the right to kill u if u playin me. hell no so why make an excuse that bich was crazy. and all men aint jealous, my dad taught me to control my feelings, i dont have to be jealous ova no cause guess wat? god made more than u. REMEMBER THIS FELLAHS ITS BEETER TO HAVE TROUBLE WITH TEN WOMEN THAN TO HAVE TROUBLE WITH ONE. and that dont fall in love speech u gave, u didnt really explain wat quoted because both paragraphs second guessed each other so wich is it. u proved my point without even trying. women natrauly get attached no matter wat. men r nomads we roam, sense eve all a woman knows is a companion u dont know how to be by your self, sorry for spilling the beans lmao!!!! im late for an important meeting but i will holla at u lata ms lake
Ok, first Trey you say that men should take control and state upsfront, that this is only a sex thing, well, for those men that don’t then what. You have men who think that, as Ms. Lake said, think that they own you and that you are not allowed to be with anyone but them. So if that is the case a man (forget that becuase women do it as well), a person needs to state upfront that this is only going to be a sex thing and nothing else and STICK TO IT!!!!
Nick I am sorry to say, but Ms. Lake is right, you have a lot to learn when it come to life, love and relationships. I know you are 22 (you let the world know it each chance you get), but you are young and I’m sure that you haven’t been through enough to know the answer to everything. Please don’t be offended, but I’m just saying what others may want to say. You said that men are “nomads” and they roam, men catch feelings just as women. It’s just that you may handle it differently. Men fail to handle their business correctly in the beginning, if you say something than stick to it.
Well first off let me state that I don’t condone cheating period but it happens in most cases so I tried to break it down. If a man wants to control his side piece then he is just dumb. Dudes that think like that shouldn’t be married in the first place. You should not care what she does when she’s not with you. Better yet let her know up front that she goes as she pleases when you’re not together. This helps with preventing the women from catching feelings as well because she isn’t under any constraints. It’s nothing more than a nut. Preferably for both sexes
Now that is perfectly understandable. But as you stated some men and women want to have control period. And they shouldn’t be married if they think it is their duty to control another person.
lol please dont let the age fool u. ive seen more than all of u prob have been through trust. my thing is everyone says hey u have much to learn, but the thing is ive been handling my business since i was 15, sexualy financialy emotionaly etc. im not saying i know everything but wat i dont know i evaluate and ask questions. u guys r stating that men catch feelings but wat your not understanding them negros r dumbasses. please understand this there no discussion, if your cheating obviously u think u know wat u doing, man or woman. im speaking on a man, one that knows the rules limits and boundaries, i dont condone it either but the simple question who hasnt cheated. if u did u must have ran into an ignorant fool of a man. no man lets the woman set the rules, commin law. be advised a smart does not catch feeling period, if he does hes an idiot. ive seen the best catch feelings and guess wat there all idiots. why because u started something that u cant handle, man or woman. should they do it no, do they do it yes. and u say thst if u say something then stick to it, i havent seen a woman yet cheat and not catch feelings, handle yo business first then u worry about wat comes next. trey keep saying the same im saying just less detail, as a man messing with a woman on the side i dont care wat she does, dont call me dont speak to me out in public, u dont know me, if he does not abide by that hes an idiot. yawl wont litsen to me cause im 22 but trey speaks on it in less form and its agreeable. thats cool but dont knock the younger man because i play by and know the rules better than these other SO CALLED GROWN MEN. TIGHTN UP LADYS AND STOP HATIN GOODDAY
Nick Sweetie, no one is hating, trust me. Better yet, I’m not. You just need to understand that men catch feelings as well. You only looking at it at how you would od it, and that is how you need the respond. You are absoulutly right, some people can’t handle the situation. Cheating is never good. But Nick, look at it on the other side, a married woman cheating and the man that she is involved with catch feelings. It can and has happened. Who knows it could happen to you, you never know what the future holds. I’m not knocking your knowledge because you are 22, I am only saying that you still have a long way to go. You are rgith I have no clue to what you have experienced, but being the age that you are you haven’t experienced half of what you will in your lifetime. You are very knowledgable on your situation. But please understand a man is not a dumbass because he begins to fall in love with the woman he is cheating with. That is a normal aspect in life. If that is the case are you saying women are “dumbasses” for catching feelings. As I stated before every gender will at some point catch feelings for the person that they are cheating with. The difference is how they show it.
By the way the rules and boundaires are what you make it as an individual and always, I mean always changing.
Well the point of this blog is to have an intelligent discussion/debate or what have you. If everyone felt the same about every issue there would be nothing to discuss. With that said Nick my man, I don’t think they are hating by any means. Just pointing out facts. You and I established what dumb ass men do. All they are saying is well there are dumb ass men because they know of instances where dudes caught feelings. I even know of some cases. That doesn’t change the fact that they are dumb, but people still do it. I give it to you that you seem to know slot for your age. More than I probably did, but I will say that sometimes your age does show in your reactions. Nevertheless I see our side and I understand the ladies point. But you can always agree to disagree but everyone is really saying the same thing. Just from different sides and perspective.
Thank you Trey for clearing that up.
Daaaaaaaaaaamn, this was dope! I aint married but when u said “he doesn’t want u 2 be with anyone else but him and he still will be jealous married and all” that took the cake…that’s sooooooooo trueeee smh….
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Difference of opinion is great! we all have had difference experiences so we will all view things differently and no particular situation is right or wrong or applies to specifically men or women!
dewly noted, clearly understood, butn the question if u know the rules, im just speaking on that, why allow yourself to get caught up. my view is if u catch feelings u need to get caught up. i understand competely wat everybody saying. and from the way yawl speaking all yawl have been caught up. wich means u fucked up. my point play the game how its supposed to be played dont mess up. i guess my comments show my age but in the long run all women that i have come in contact with wether my age r older, no matter wat we r all still friends, no bad vibes no jacked up relationships, why because i dont pretend to be something im not. and i tell the truth. if she cheatin on her man, that has nothin to do with me, i dont call her she calls me, when i see her in public i dont even go in her direction, older more experienced people may frown at my comments on this but i let my dad who is 55 read and two uncles and they agree me because they said that we play the same game they played but the men punks because they dont know how to control there fellings and the women r crazy because they never could control feelings and feel that they r always right these situations. now those r almost senior citizens thats speaking on this. my dad said and qoute ” any man or woman that violates there own vows sets the rules turns around and breaks them needs to have wat ever happens to them happen.” i didnt say anything he read it laughed and shook his head because he said all our priorties r jacked up. i aint trippin
Nick your point has been made, and you are argumentatively accurate, but there are different reasons why people get into these situations and also different pleasures that people get out of them. Like its always not the one that is not married that catches the feelings, because the one that is not married is there for facilitation ONLY. That is the first thing people that step into that situation must and hate to realize! Tell me who would not catch feelings for someone that is giving them what they are not receiving, or etc at times. We all know I can go on and on about the different aspects of this issue but, FIRST, you must know the bad before you jump into a supposedly forbidden situation off the jump, so if there is any thing that comes into play that is seemed a caught up moment, you should have known that it was possible to happen from the start. If you are in a situation that that is headed to get either of you caught up, SORRY FOLKS, YOU DID NOT KNOW THE RULES WHEN YOU STARTED OUT IN THE FIRST PLACE. That’s just common sense. Like I always say Emotions are serious things that are not to be played with, There are not many that can turn on and off like that! So it is expected in any form, Male or Female, Z!
Well I’m sure most of you have heard about the 80/20 rule.In our relationships, our partner is most likely only able to offer 80% of what we need. There are times when we will find someone who fills in the wholes, offering the other 20%…and because it’s been missing for so long, you think you’ve finally found what you truly need. But be carefully taking risks of cheating, or leaving your 80%…because what you will be left with, is that 20%. Obviously this is no where near as fulfilling as being with someone who offers 80%. You will never have it all with 1 person. It is virtually impossible so settle for the greater good.
You are correct T.Munson, and that is why people must always think the worst when going into a situation under these circumstances, that is if you are up for the possible worst that can come for your need to feel in what you claim you are missing, Or its maybe not what is missing. Maybe its what has not been created in the relationship yet…….. YEP, I am out on that note, IM KILLING EM! Trey what up BIG HOMIE!
it’s not impossible to be the other woman and never catch feelings some females just go hard and know they only need a man for xyz they have their eyes on some sort of “prize” or gratification and thats the only “feelings” they get out of their so called relationship..at the end of the day you will leave the one u like for the one you love its a matter of who will do it first..the girl on the side or the married man..usually the married man will be the first one to make this move.
The truth is out and if you can’t handle it ,it’s on you. I remember sleeping with a man who was on the down low. He has a wife and four kids two of whom were in college on the same campus for which i was taking classes. Anyway long story short ,that was how i met him because the young man invited his father to college campus. As the man was leaving he approached me and we started talking and then next thing i know i’m bent over in a hotel room. It was some of the best sex i ever had and i wanted more. Not just the sex but him. This was a man with a wife and four kids who seemed to be happily married but his wife refused to give him anal sex and he thought as a matter of course that i understood our relationship and that it was to go no further than the hotel room, but i didn’t understand it at all, for i was the one in luv not him. I don’t even remember us kissing. Word to the wise give your man what he needs in the bedroom or he will seek it elsewhere and you won’t like the elements of that equation i promise you. And this was a man who was not gay but simply needed a sexual pleasure his wife was not providing, you ask me how i know this, it’s rather simple when you think about it.
Wow!!! But I don’t believe that he wasn’t gay. He would have to be, he was at curious at the least, then acted upon it, which made him gay in my book. Thanks for sharing Kevin
what i’m trying to say Trey ,is that you would not have known it, at least not in the way straight people perpetuate gay stereotypes
Ok I got you.
V Im agreeing with you it is possible for a woman to not get attached in this situation! Honestly me getting attached is few far and in between, and it seem like the more Im like this the more men try to give me their heart and everything else. Now I dont mess with married men or men with girlfriends but I have before and Kevin you are right when you say give ur mate (men and women) what they want in the bedroom because they will find it someone where else. I remember being in college and this guy took interest in me and his girl stayed in the same dorm as I on the floor before mines. This guy was more christian than Christ and used to always come visit me! Nobody would have ever thought he would ever cheat on his girlfriend but i dont know what she wasnt doing but he used to always have a thing for me!
Damn I go to the Noila and come back and this is whats up. Ok Ms. Lake this is good. I had jumpoffs for 8yrs whether they be single, with a girlfriend or married and I neva fell for or caught feelings for either one. U have to know how to play the game if u r gonna play it. There was no common law. Who say that man invented the game? Did I miss that book in Barnes&Noble? There was no calling only texting. And the text was only 5 words long. Can u come handle that? Either yes or no and I was good. We had no conversations because if u had a woman thats what she was for. No cooking again cause thats what your woman is for. If u wanted to go out before the jumpoff cool. I was down with that too. Not all men know what they r getting themselves into when they so call play the game. They catch feelings cause the pu$$y is just that good or the head is even better or mayb because u r doing something that the other half just ain’t doin n the bed. Now Trey that 80% and 20% is 100% for my man that I have now. Because I know what I have to do to keep him and what not to do that will make him run off. If he wants me to have a 3some, done. I don’t smother him, i’m not too dependent and I take care of business. I enjoyed this read very much. Everyone had some good views on this topic but what it all comes down to is if you’re not a true player don’t play the game.
@ ITAMEDAWILD, i totally agree. Hell, sometimes the texting isnt a part of the game thats how some people get caught you never know if your sig other will go snooping through your phone. if you’re on your p’s and q’s a quick phone call and everything is set up and ready to go. As a female, If you enter this type of relationship looking for fun and only that you will never allow yourself to catch feelings because you’re so “in love” with whatever this man is doing for you in the bedroom and maybe financially. After all the female usually has no sig other they are cheating on and could easily find som1 else to satisfy their needs and be “in love” with. If you’re about ur B.I. and understand the game no amount of sex, money, or whatever else you’re getting out of it will cause u to catch feelings.
wow!!!!! lmao this is real interesting, everybody has there on view on it and it all makes sense, but just remember u play with fire u will get burned. lights out, yo trey im in memphis getting my swag attacked by these femals, your well known playa, i had my lap top and the waitress new your face lmao!!!!! oh yeah playa wat u been doin, she said she gonna hit yo site up.
trouble trouble trouble chi town hahahahahah holla back man
Ha Ha Nick, ask about me LOL. I ain’t just on here talking shit. I do my thing, LOL. Have fun in the city of pimps and playas.