Comments on: So You Chose A Married Man!!! Know The Rules

By: Trey Tymes

Trey Tymes — Wed, 15 Jul 2009 08:58:47 +0000

Ha Ha Nick, ask about me LOL. I ain’t just on here talking shit. I do my thing, LOL. Have fun in the city of pimps and playas.

By: nick south baton rouge

nick south baton rouge — Wed, 15 Jul 2009 04:04:56 +0000

wow!!!!! lmao this is real interesting, everybody has there on view on it and it all makes sense, but just remember u play with fire u will get burned. lights out, yo trey im in memphis getting my swag attacked by these femals, your well known playa, i had my lap top and the waitress new your face lmao!!!!! oh yeah playa wat u been doin, she said she gonna hit yo site up. trouble trouble trouble chi town hahahahahah holla back man

By: V

Wed, 15 Jul 2009 03:38:36 +0000

@ ITAMEDAWILD, i totally agree. Hell, sometimes the texting isnt a part of the game thats how some people get caught you never know if your sig other will go snooping through your phone. if you’re on your p’s and q’s a quick phone call and everything is set up and ready to go. As a female, If you enter this type of relationship looking for fun and only that you will never allow yourself to catch feelings because you’re so “in love” with whatever this man is doing for you in the bedroom and maybe financially. After all the female usually has no sig other they are cheating on and could easily find som1 else to satisfy their needs and be “in love” with. If you’re about ur B.I. and understand the game no amount of sex, money, or whatever else you’re getting out of it will cause u to catch feelings.

By: ITAMEDAWILD

ITAMEDAWILD — Wed, 15 Jul 2009 00:40:33 +0000

Damn I go to the Noila and come back and this is whats up. Ok Ms. Lake this is good. I had jumpoffs for 8yrs whether they be single, with a girlfriend or married and I neva fell for or caught feelings for either one. U have to know how to play the game if u r gonna play it. There was no common law. Who say that man invented the game? Did I miss that book in Barnes&Noble? There was no calling only texting. And the text was only 5 words long. Can u come handle that? Either yes or no and I was good. We had no conversations because if u had a woman thats what she was for. No cooking again cause thats what your woman is for. If u wanted to go out before the jumpoff cool. I was down with that too. Not all men know what they r getting themselves into when they so call play the game. They catch feelings cause the pu$$y is just that good or the head is even better or mayb because u r doing something that the other half just ain’t doin n the bed. Now Trey that 80% and 20% is 100% for my man that I have now. Because I know what I have to do to keep him and what not to do that will make him run off. If he wants me to have a 3some, done. I don’t smother him, i’m not too dependent and I take care of business. I enjoyed this read very much. Everyone had some good views on this topic but what it all comes down to is if you’re not a true player don’t play the game.

By: Ms. Lake

Ms. Lake — Tue, 14 Jul 2009 15:35:25 +0000

V Im agreeing with you it is possible for a woman to not get attached in this situation! Honestly me getting attached is few far and in between, and it seem like the more Im like this the more men try to give me their heart and everything else. Now I dont mess with married men or men with girlfriends but I have before and Kevin you are right when you say give ur mate (men and women) what they want in the bedroom because they will find it someone where else. I remember being in college and this guy took interest in me and his girl stayed in the same dorm as I on the floor before mines. This guy was more christian than Christ and used to always come visit me! Nobody would have ever thought he would ever cheat on his girlfriend but i dont know what she wasnt doing but he used to always have a thing for me!

By: Trey Tymes

Trey Tymes — Tue, 14 Jul 2009 15:19:24 +0000

Ok I got you.

By: Kevin

Kevin — Tue, 14 Jul 2009 14:34:46 +0000

what i’m trying to say Trey ,is that you would not have known it, at least not in the way straight people perpetuate gay stereotypes

By: Trey Tymes

Trey Tymes — Tue, 14 Jul 2009 09:17:30 +0000

Wow!!! But I don’t believe that he wasn’t gay. He would have to be, he was at curious at the least, then acted upon it, which made him gay in my book. Thanks for sharing Kevin

By: Kevin

Kevin — Tue, 14 Jul 2009 09:11:22 +0000

The truth is out and if you can’t handle it ,it’s on you. I remember sleeping with a man who was on the down low. He has a wife and four kids two of whom were in college on the same campus for which i was taking classes. Anyway long story short ,that was how i met him because the young man invited his father to college campus. As the man was leaving he approached me and we started talking and then next thing i know i’m bent over in a hotel room. It was some of the best sex i ever had and i wanted more. Not just the sex but him. This was a man with a wife and four kids who seemed to be happily married but his wife refused to give him anal sex and he thought as a matter of course that i understood our relationship and that it was to go no further than the hotel room, but i didn’t understand it at all, for i was the one in luv not him. I don’t even remember us kissing. Word to the wise give your man what he needs in the bedroom or he will seek it elsewhere and you won’t like the elements of that equation i promise you. And this was a man who was not gay but simply needed a sexual pleasure his wife was not providing, you ask me how i know this, it’s rather simple when you think about it.

By: V

Tue, 14 Jul 2009 05:56:29 +0000

it’s not impossible to be the other woman and never catch feelings some females just go hard and know they only need a man for xyz they have their eyes on some sort of “prize” or gratification and thats the only “feelings” they get out of their so called relationship..at the end of the day you will leave the one u like for the one you love its a matter of who will do it first..the girl on the side or the married man..usually the married man will be the first one to make this move.