Sex Secrets To Keep Him Coming Back For More
So, you think you found Mr. Right. Emotionally you are clicking on all cylinders and you want to leave an impression in the bedroom that he will never forget. Well here are 4 tips to help you out.
Don’t tease, but don’t be too easy either
Most men and women fail to realize that there’s a fine line between being a tease and being playful. If you deny him sexual gratification too often or for too long, he will lose interest in you and actually begin to resent you. While there should never be an expectation of sex, once that expectation has been created, it’s very difficult to remove it without serious problems.
On the other hand, while men are inherently lazy and love sure things, you also don’t want us to take you for granted. Plus, if you’re always available to satisfy him, he’ll think you’re no longer a challenge (and most men love a challenge). So if you can turn down a booty call every now and then, or say no to sex sometimes when you’re not really up for it, he’s actually going to want to see you more and make more effort.
Excite him, but don’t over do it
All women should know this one thing: Men all like to think that they’re “the man.” So you need to know how to make him feel like he’s doing things right! You have to play to the male ego and making him comfortable about some possible insecurities such as penis size, stamina and the ability to bring you to orgasm is of huge importance. Do not fake it if you’re not fully satisfied, but communicate to him about what he does right and praise him for the things he does do well. If a man is consitently insecure about his ability to satisfy his partner, he will get on down. A sincere compliment here and there will keep him focused on doing better by you in bed, instead of finding someone easier to please.
Underpromise, overdeliver.
As far as the bedroom is concerned, do not create false expectations as no guy wants to hear about how great you are at giving head if you’re not going to perform it on him. If you promise to “f*ck the life out of him” and then don’t, you’re setting him up for disappointment. Confidence is great, but the less you promise, the less expectation you create and the more pleasant a surprise you can be for him. And when you’re a pleasant surprise, there’s usually going to be an encore performance; he’ll want to see what else you have in your bag of tricks.
Desire is key.Most women tend to think that great sex is all in the performance. Now, don’t get it twisted, if you’re really great at something and enjoy doing it, by all means, go right ahead! But it’s important to remember that simply expressing a desire for your guy makes a man feel sexually powerful, and making him feel wanted will make him want you even more. So don’t forget to let him know how badly you want him, in as much detail as is comfortable to you. It will really turn him on, even if you aren’t the most experienced or skilled at any particular act
well again i must applaude u sir. the thing is, its not hard to please a man. food sex communication, alot of like, a lil bit of love. women who really care about a guy will naturaly cator to there man. for those who dont care those r the ones thats a lone. u do have some that fall through the cracks. but for the most part, just keep it simple and everything should work out
I find this very interesting because alot of women don’t know this. Me personally I do, but I know alot of women that don’t know how to keep their man…very valid points. I agree with Nick as well….sometimes its simple things that can keep a man happy where he is
I feel like Tasha! this is good pointers for those who dont know or always trying to overdo it! Hell this blog work both ways doing these things will keep a woman coming back too! but as always i hope these folks are out here are listening!
Yeah you are right. I guess this could be applied the other way around too. Good point
IM GLAD YOU EMPHASIZED HOW NOT TO FAKE IT TO THE LADIES……CAUSE BOYYYYYYYY WE KNOW THEY CAN CONVINCE US THAT WE GOT THE BEST d**K IN THE WORLD…LOL.
AND CHALLENGE IS A PLUS! DONT WE HATE A EASY ONE..DONT MATTER HOW GOOD U LOOK ITS LIKE EHHH..WHOS NEXT..
Nice!
Very Nice!!!!
wow thats really good insight…..i already know these things but at the same taime i learned them from experience if i only this blog was created about hmmmmm…….5 years ago would have saved me the trouble lol
on point!
Tymes I gotta commend you on the good artcle sir, you hitting on alot of valid points and I hope women who dont know these simple things read and incorparate this into how they approach pleasing a man. It always makes me laugh when women say “its hard pleasing a man”, for some crazy reason, when its anything but true. Men tell you what they like and dont like almost from the first moment they talk to you, REAL TALK. Women have to remember one thing when it comes to us, and that is we are “Simple Creatures of Habit”, what we like today, we gonna like it for the rest of our lives. Like Nick south baton rouge said, all we want is Food, Sex, Silence thats it(and a nice ass car to drive around in, maybe thats just me). We need more posts like this, keep up the the good work
I appreciate that Matrix. I’m tripping because food, sex, silence and a nice car to ride around in is all I wanted too!!
Great tips! Keep them coming.
Ok well I have been married for 5 years and I’m in collage & work part time, he works full time, plus we have two great kids together……alot on our plates. My other frustration comes from when were at a friends house and this other “girl so godess like” was there and I was woundering if he would be imagining her instead of me since he wanted to go at it right after we got home. My question is do guys work that way, do you imagine other girls when your with you partner? Or someone else suggested that maybe it was me that maybe I was board with the same old same old in bed, and so if that’s the reason for my concers what would be some WOW things that guys like?
the reason I ask is b/c this girl is only 13 but has the look and body for a 21 old, and she was wearing somthing that didn’t leave much to the mind, if you get my drift? but still I know he will not leave me for her or anything like that, it’s just I don’t understand why this bothers me??
Well Cass it shouldn’t bother you at all. If anything it is a testament to the type of husband that you have. None of us are perfect and no matter if a man is married or not, he will always find other women attractive. Period!! The thing you want to look for is how he responds to the attraction. A good man takes that temptation and transforms it into his women like your husband seems to be doing. He focuses that energy he feels into you and just loves you harder. At least he didn’t get at her even though she is 13 I know. There is nothing wrong with a man sometimes imagining that he’s with another woman. For one, the women will never know and for two, at least he does that instead of actually sleeping with another woman. Once again we are not robots but the key is in how he responds. You should be happy, it seems as though you have a great man who is willing to do what he has to do in his mind to keep his marriage sacred. Go ahead and suck him off something real good tonight!!!
Great post Trey!! I shall tease && please this weekend
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Keep it sexy, keep it safe!!