When it comes to the dating dynamic, older man, younger woman has been the norm in relationships. There could be many theories on why: Men are more visual, opting for younger healthier women; females are more emotional, opting for men with more experience; older men offer women more stability; women mature faster than men; daddy issues; his first two wives died during childbirth; etc.

 However, this dynamic began to skew with the sexual revolution of the ’60s, evidenced famously in pop culture by Mrs. Robinson in The Graduate. Gradually, cinema followed with other examples: Harold and Maude, How Stella Got Her Groove Back,  Notes on a Scandal, Sex and the City. Mainstream culture caught on and suddenly it became socially acceptable for women to take younger guys that teachers everywhere began sleeping with their students.  You really can’t go a day anymore without hearing the word “Cougar” anymore.  Nowadays, the question is not whether dating an older women is appropriate, fun or sexy. The real question has become whether this is a fad, or will it surpass the ancient dynamic of older man/younger woman? I am going to try to answer, which is better. I will consider younger women to be between 18 and 25 years old and older women are 33 to 45. Anything younger is illegal which is not the business and any older would be like fucking your mother which is also not the business. Should you date an older or younger woman? Here are six criteria for you to consider.

BODY
 No doubt about it, younger women tend to have better bodies. Their metabolisms are still high, and they are too young for stress lines to have set in, and their skin is full of collagen and elasticity. However, let’s not completely rule out older women here. They have their own bank accounts with which they can pay for personal trainers and Botox. Many men do not like the idea of any cosmetic surgery, but we’re entering a time when people can maintain their looks, not change them. Most women won’t turn into Oprah, However, a young girl can pound beers and grab late-night tacos with you and not wear it on her ass the next day.

Winner: Younger women (due to late-night taco clause)

SEX
The Truth of the matter is most younger women don’t have much experience.  Having sex with a virgin sounds great until you realize how awkward and nervous she becomes between the sheets. How many guys at 30 just want to fuck for hours? Sure, younger women tend to have more energy than their older chicks and there is something fun about being the person that teaches them new positions. For years, she’ll think you’re better in bed than you actually are just because she lacks comparison. However, older women know what they want; they’re more confident and more likely to get freaky. Hell, she’ll buy you a drink and she’ll expect something in return.

 Winner: Older women                                         (Continued On The Next Page)

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