Ask Trey!!
From: “Bridgitte J.” >
Date: March 11, 2010 6:32:15 PM CST
To: trey@peppermintblowpops.com
Subject: QUESTION: Should I Be Flattered?
Hey Trey! You can call me Bridge, I read the blog all the time & was wonderin if I could get your input. So i recently ran into my elementary sweet heart not too long ago. We exchanged numbers and started talkin right away. Maybe a week into it sex pops in the picture. We’re 21 now, grown, so its nothin. I tell him I want it even more than he does. I had thought about what it would be like with him for years anyway, why not take advantage. So he’s talkin up his dick so much that I just gotta do it. Next day I make my way over there… but he doesnt live alone. So for hours we just flirtin & touchin when no ones lookin. We decide to go in the asement for a little bit. Forplay starts immediately. Now I’m already soaked & he sayin he hard as fuck, so I pull the pants down he goes to put it in…… & goes limp……… I react cool about it, dont really wanna make him feel bad, you know it happens sometimes. So i sit behind him, hug him & just whisper that ima stay over.We go upstairs & his brother buggin us to go on a liquor run, we do it just so he’ll leave and we can get back to business… 2 hours later everybodys gone we got the place to ourselves. I bend over the side of the couch & he goes in, felt hella good, but after about 3 minutes (if that) he cums… he apologizes said thats never happened before, so we wait for him to be ready again… We go at it 2 more times & both of those maybe lasted 5 minutes each. Dont get me wrong the back shots were lovely, I just wish it could have lasted longer. I mean maybe it had something to do with me havin that “virgin pussy” (HAHA) but I dont know. Should I be flattered and think of it like “damn he liked it that much” or does he just not know how to hold his nut? (serious face)
side note: we havent been able to try again because of some personal reasons, but its been running through my head since then. input please? (My response is under the jump)
ReplyReply AllForwardDeleteNot SpamReport SpamResume DraftRe-Send EmailPrintView ImagesBridge, whaddup I see you got that fire cooch over there!! No straight up let me put you up on the business. First off a man should never brag on his “sex game” because it is almost impossible to live up to the hype. It is always best to play it cool and not act like you fucking like a porn star. This was homies first mistake because women are visual creatures so whenever you talk your shit up too much, women tend to fantasize and your imaginations are so vivid that whatever you dream it would be like is almost always sure to pale in reality. Whenever us guys think about having sex with a woman so badly, it tends to make us ejaculate prematurely when we actually go in. Now let me tell you why dude is wack and why it wasn’t your cooch even though you may have that good good. First of all, homie lied when he said that it never happened before that. Every man has cum quick a time or three in his sex life. If he was indeed telling the truth, he probably hasn’t had much sex in his life. After a man busts his first nut, he should be good for at least 20 minutes minimum for round 2. It baffles me because you said that you all went 2 more times and both times lasted maybe 5 minutes! Where they do that at? He damn near sounds like he was a virgin before this night happened. After a man has an orgasm his dick becomes de-sensitized so that he can go much longer the next time. Even if he didn’t have a condom on he should of went much longer. He basically caught 3 nuts in 13 minutes of fucking which is an epic fail in any capacity that you put it!! You even said that the first time he put it in, he went limp and that leads me to believe that he probably nutted in his underwear before he even pulled it out and was too ashamed to tell you. If a man nuts 3 times in 13 minutes of sex, he is not going to go limp before he slides it in unless he prematurely ejaculates. I did it one when I was like 16 LOL. Bridge, in all honesty I wouldn’t be flattered, it would take me hitting it to let you know if you got that good or not LOL!! It sounds to me like dude just doesn’t get much pussy, and you actually did him a favor by breaking him off. If you still want to lay down with the homie, I’d suggest that you figure out some way to tell him that he should beat his meat more often so he can perform like he’s had some pussy before when he gets up in it. The choice is yours!!

Bridge, cant help but have sympathy and be angry with you because as a sister with good pussy i have had that happen more than normal its rediculous, but another experience that i had was withthis guy who was on cocaine it will make a man nut quick, go limp, and sumtimes not get it up. what kind od guy is he? Thug, Preppey, Lazy? Does he smoke? all of this also plays a part into his sex Game because its not Proper
Ha! love your answer trey but =( ok… I know I got the good good though no question!!=) … but the other night I asked him how many people he been with, and he told me I was his 3rd. His first was his girl in high school, second girl baby moms, and now me, so yeah you sound about right.. I pretty much did do him a favor. He been askin when its gonna happen again, but I doubt it ever will lol. Thanks for answering!!
& Lady Tee … I really cant label him, idk what to call it. He’s tatted but not a thug. Dresses nice but not preppy. He smokes weed though & we had a lil bit 2 drink from the store run.
the actual truth here is that this man masturbates WAAAYYYY too much. He has gotten his nut off so many times quickly and in secrecy that he is unable to hold or control his ejaculation. Once young men begin to indulge in too much masturbation they begin to ‘train’ their sexual response to a pattern of rapid arousal, rapid ejaculation, rapid repeat. You should encourage him to masturbate in private with more time to spare so he can hold off on ejaculation while bringing himself almost to the point of no return several times in a period of an hour or so. This will train his sexual arousal pattern for longer duration. Or not, I mean, it’s not like you are his sex coach or something. Also I agree with Trey about not talking-up your sex game. That’s just stupid – actions always speak louder than words.
Haha I knew it!! I’m so on point with it. Voice of reason you are so off it’s not even funny!!
Yeah, thats just lack of experience.
I fuck with you trey! lmao..”this never happended before.” lol, but damn she tried to work with him, never talk up the dick, play it cool, so true. Hilarious, I’m curious to see how
Bridgett looks.
two more times and he bust in 5 minutes where they do that at? 10 minutes later and im still laughing at that line right there .
haha u feel me?
WOW!!!!! 3 in one night, and they all do not even add up to 20mins! What part of the game is THIS! Trey holla at me! LOL
wow can’t help but be sad for dude. had a good laugh though (kanye shrug)