There has been an issue that 95% people fear that deal with some form of relationship, be it BF/GF, engaged, marriage or even casual sex. Why is it at certain points of our relationships regardless of how good or maybe how bad its going we tend to creep out that back door, but if your mate was to even show a sign of the same action it would be a major problem. This can stem from a number of things. Even when we were children some had issues referring to this. When you were a child it was very hard to start something new with your best friend and then finding out they did it great with someone or experienced it better with someone else was heartbreaking. So we have always dealt with a form of this issue, but I think as society and television progressed and portrayed things to be a certain way made us think this feeling was almost over shadowed. See when someone is that close you feel a sense of attachment and a higher form of intimacy, but what is really the problem with this issue when you think about it.

In some relationships some feel betrayed, even though they were doing dirt as well or had did dirt, they feel a sense of honesty and purity has been broken. Now lets be real, the major reason that this can and seems to be an issue that no one likes to talk about is because some people can not stand to think about the things that their mate is doing with someone. To add insult to injury, you also gather thoughts about how many people that you have messed with that were in relationship themselves and the things they did to you or let you do to them. Even though messing off is messing off, YES there are morals!

We all know its some thing’s that you gradually teach or new things that you experience with your mate that you “THINK” that you and that person only do and have done, but when your mind wonders…….we all know it WONDERS! Close your eyes and take your mind to the most passionate, freaky, heartfelt sex that you have ever made with your mate. Think of the intensity, athleticism, the creativity and all the untouched that you broke open. Now think of that being done with out you…………………..maybe giving someone else a minor sample of that…………………….or taking them half way into it……………………………..or if its sex out of anger, or competitive sex with someone besides you they may bring out their best guns, even the ones you taught them! This is undoubtedly why this is a major fear and issue that can shatter even the highest stage of a relationship. But why is it OK for one to think that they can do this, but can not take the thought of feeling the backlash if their mate did the same? Why is it that we can secretively have another life of pleasure but will not except what we expect our mate not to have…………To be continued! Z!

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