Don’t bring other people’s problems, manipulative behavior or anxiety into yourself, learn how to break out of a negative relationship cycle! Just because an issue may be similar does not mean that it will turn out the same way……..If you expect for doubt, failure, or infidelity, your mind is positioned in the wrong place! Don’t always think that your time is being wasted, when in turn you may be the one wasting time! Lets take a minute to break these issues down one by one. A lot of times people hold on to a relationship that puts them under so much stress, regret, and pain strictly because of the time that they have put into the relationship. Time means everything in some cases, and it means nothing in others. There is valuable time and wasted time. Do not confuse length with what is truly valuable. I have known to deal with certain couples that will hold on to what breaks them inside, tears them down, and stresses them completely out strictly because of years that they have been in the relationship. First of all, if you have any of these issues within your relationship your communication level is either DEAD or you just holding on to a failed project. Each relationship should be handled as a learning and growing process. Another issue with wasted time, some people hold on to the thought of just having someone and being in love with being in love. How can this help you as an individual though? People tend to get so caught up in what they want to work, they forget what works for them and what they need. Its good to think of your mate in your relationship, but how will you be able to facilitate what is needed at a high level if you yourself are not in order mentally. Mental satisfaction is one of the most important elements in a relationship. If connection is lost with that, you point of progression will be stand still. Z!
