This is for my blinded by love women…here’s a little help!! Cause New.New got you baby!!…I try to uplift my girls…give y’all a lil bit of game! Some of y’all need it sooooooo do me a favor and listen up..I’m going to give you just a few things to look out for!! By no means am I saying that I’m perfect or that I know everything, but what I do know…I will share with you!

If I had a nickel for every time a woman shared a bad love experience with me… then I’d be VERY well off. The crazy part is that some women actually believe it’s only them going through this…HELL NAW lil mama…plenty of us do! Some of us would just not rather talk about it!

So you meet a guy, he seems great, everything is cool, you like him-he likes you- you give him some nookie…. Only AFTER THE FACT, once you’ve already become sexual and intimate with him, do you start to find out who he REALLY IS and what he REALLY WANTS- You’ve given him some loving but find out that no- he actually doesn’t want a relationship!! So now you are sitting there like FUCK him, and make him out to be the bad guy!! It’s not him- it’s you…if he never told you that was what he was looking for then how could you assume that it would just automatically happen?! IMMA SAY THIS REALLY LOUD…PUSSY WILL NOT KEEP A MAN, OR MAKE HIM WANT TO BE YOUR MAN!!! DONT THINK JUST BECAUSE YOU GOT SOME GOOD-GOOD..HE’LL WANT TO SETTLE DOWN…in case you didn’t know good pussy comes a dime a dozen!! As long as its tight, wet, and available… he’ll fuck it…so you aren’t nobody special!! (sry! just keeping it real!!!) If he wants a relationship he will let it be known…do not be mad at him when your plan A (give him the goodies, and now he’s mine!) doesn’t work! OH AND FELLAS…PLEASE WATCH OUT WHO YOU STICK IT INTO, SOME OF US WOMEN ARE CRAZY, AND IM NOT SAYING ITS ALWAYS OUR FAULTS NOW…CAUSE SOME OF YALL MEN SHOULD HAVE KNOWN BETTER!!! Follow your head and not your coochie. All women have their guy they lust after. However, lust doesn’t equal a good relationship

…If the only reason you’re dating a guy is because he’s good in bed, then it’s time to find a different type of guy. Think before you start dating a guy. If you have nothing in common and the two of you can’t have a decent conversation, then move on. He may be to die for in the looks department, but that only goes so far.

ARE you still with me?…great come on…

TIP # 2- Look at yourself…what impression are you giving men? What is your clothing/ body language saying? Dress and act like the man you want to attract. You can still be yourself and sexy, but a few minor changes will have you attracting real men instead of boys that will never grow up. You know the old saying…if she dresses like a hoe, walks like a hoe…she’s probably a hoe!! yeah…you get the picture..your first impression is everything…please make it a good one!

Okay so you want a good man, but you keep your ass in the club! (Facebook this was my problem, I must be honest!) Don’t nobody want a club hopper! Now before you get all excited, I know that a lot of people find their future husband at a bar or club, but those places are usually filled with people looking for quick hookups or one night stands. If that’s what you want, fine. If it’s not, it’s best to stay away from those places and focus on meeting men in non hookup related places, like the grocery store!!

One of the reasons girls end up with the wrong kind of guy is they lack the self-esteem to blow off the wrong guys. You don’t have to settle for less than what you’re worth because you think you’re not worthy of something better. Work on your confidence and take time to make yourself feel better. Do whatever it takes to make yourself realize that you are someone who deserves a good man. It’s okay to be picky. You don’t have to date every guy who asks you out or go out on a second or third date if you don’t want to. Don’t be afraid to turn a guy down because you’re afraid you will hurt his feelings. Only go out with a guy who you think really has a chance of being the right guy for you. A lot of girls have trouble saying no to guys, especially when being asked out on a date. Get comfortable with saying no and don’t do anything you don’t want to do. These tips for single girls on how to stop dating the wrong guys can go for anyone. It’s natural to feel bad about rejecting someone. And it’s common for a girl to have low self-esteem. But in order to stop putting yourself through the pain and confusion of dating the wrong guys, you need to put some effort into it.

I hate to hear women say…there are no good men left! I hate it because there still are!! Sometimes you have to go outside your box…Just because he isn’t a “bad boy” doesn’t make him square!!! Don’t let any man intimidate you! Go for what you want!! Don’t ever sell yourself short because you think you aren’t good enough!! AND, If I ever see Denzel Washington- BABY!! that ass is mine! Stop dealing with the wrong man…and get on the winning team!!! Life is sooooo much better when you’re happy!

i love you all….xoxo.

love always (your favorite badd girl),
Melanie Kay aka new.new

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