
Author Archive for Elle_jay

I dont know about you but I have to admit I’ve had a few one night stands. Every once in a while its ok. Ok I take that back dont make a habit of it lol. If you are against it then think about the beauty of a one night stand. I mean its kinda like the perfect end to the night out at the club after a few drinks and dancing.

As women we all know men have a thing for their mothers. Even if she wasn’t around. That alone is the reason you must RESEMBLE his mom, NOT try to BE his mom. I know how to cook, I keep an impeccably clean home, and I’m cute lls.
I know that for those reasons I don’t have trouble getting a man, but trouble making them leave. I’m just not the committed relationship type but again that’s beside the point. Ladies you have to know that in order to have a thorough relationship where you know that you’ve done all that you can because there is more to keeping your man than just sex! Continue reading ‘Be Worth Keeping Around: How To Treat A Man’

Summer 2010. Winter last year was so so cold. I never thought that I would have gone through so much so soon in my life. Im 23 and have yet to keep a man for longer than 2 months. I’m shy and much too conservative to make a move. To make matters worse my girls all have these steamy sex lives. I can only count on my hands the amount of times I’ve had sex and here they were going out with a new guy every week. Then they would say ”Ooo Lacey, girl you just don’t know”… or “Lacey, Girl we need to get you a hoe over and sum dick”. Continue reading ‘Alter Ego…’

I always wanted it… and he hit it good… Have you ever looked at someone and just knew that they would beat it up proper? I mean, just the sight of them had you going. Well let me tell you I was no stranger to that feeling. Way back when I was simply in love with this dude who was like a big brother to me. He had a beautiful smile and a sexy ass body. However, at the time when I met him, I was allot younger and in my boys can’t touch me phase lol. One summer I was out with my girls around the way and one of the was like she had someone for me to meet. Continue reading ‘The First And Only Time I Ever “Came”’



As you start out dating you and your new guy or girl are practically inseparable. You can barely breathe because they are right next to you sucking up the same air. This was more than likely due to the every hour on the hour phone calls, or they biweekly dating rituals, or maybe even the spicy hot spontaneity you all had. Oh and the constant sex was not a bad deal either! However somewhere down the line the bright fourth of July fireworks show faded. Maybe you two were at that step where you decided you could not take being away from one another any longer or the “Baby what’s mine is yours and what’s yours is mine” phase and moved in together. Maybe the honey moon is done and the reality of life took over. You know the point where you all realize it’s time to go back to work, the kids have to be cared for, and SHARED BILLS have to be paid! Life alone can ruin a relationship when allowed. Life’s random blows can kick you in the ass and leave you depressed, lonely, dull, boring, pessimistic, and many other things. However life’s hardships and trials will always be around. Therefore you can’t succumb to daily problems and let them wreck you and your relationship. Continue reading ‘Keeping The Flame In Your Relationship Lit’

