The question that I recieve most from my readers is ” what can I do to impress a lady”?  The best answer I can give is if you try to impress her, you will accomplish the opposite. Most guys that go to the club try to impress women, and they go out of their way to prove it, and end up coming off very lame. What they don’t realize is that this has the same affect on women as the poor beggar in the street who harasses you for money, could you spare some change? Men have a natural need to impress women that goes back to the caveman days where a man could impress a woman with his hunting and survival skills, but since she can fend for herself those talents just aren’t warranted in the modern era. Continue reading ‘How To Impress Women That You Meet In Clubs’

When your mate is unleashing his or her emotions on you, make it known that you are taking what he or she says into consideration. Do this by showing a sincere interest in things you know are important to him or her, regardless if it is a minor thing or a major thing. Not noticing can be the break if they notice you do not care! Z!

From: “Bridgitte J.” >
Date: March 11, 2010 6:32:15 PM CST
To: trey@peppermintblowpops.com
Subject: QUESTION: Should I Be Flattered? 
Hey Trey! You can call me Bridge, I read the blog all the time & was wonderin if I could get your input. So i recently ran into my elementary sweet heart not too long ago. We exchanged numbers and started talkin right away. Maybe a week into it sex pops in the picture. We’re 21 now, grown, so its nothin. I tell him I want it even more than he does. I had thought about what it would be like with him for years anyway, why not take advantage. So he’s talkin up his dick so much that I just gotta do it. Next day I make my way over there… but he doesnt live alone. So for hours we just flirtin & touchin when no ones lookin. We decide to go in the asement for a little bit. Forplay starts immediately. Now I’m already soaked & he sayin he hard as fuck, so I pull the pants down he goes to put it in…… & goes limp……… I react cool about it, dont really wanna make him feel bad, you know it happens sometimes. So i sit behind him, hug him & just whisper that ima stay over.

We go upstairs & his brother buggin us to go on a liquor run, we do it just so he’ll leave and we can get back to business… 2 hours later everybodys gone we got the place to ourselves. I bend over the side of the couch & he goes in, felt hella good, but after about 3 minutes (if that) he cums… he apologizes said thats never happened before, so we wait for him to be ready again… We go at it 2 more times & both of those maybe lasted 5 minutes each. Dont get me wrong the back shots were lovely, I just wish it could have lasted longer. I mean maybe it had something to do with me havin that “virgin pussy” (HAHA) but I dont know. Should I be flattered and think of it like “damn he liked it that much” or does he just not know how to hold his nut? (serious face)

side note: we havent been able to try again because of some personal reasons, but its been running through my head since then. input please?    (My response is under the jump) Continue reading ‘Ask Trey!!’

Honesty is Purity! You can kill a friendship/relationship by a number of things! Make a life note that you can not structure it by keeping inside things that may destroy you later! If you trust someone with your love, trust them with an receptive mind! You can never know what they can and will understand if you make the choice for them! Z!

I was at work one day and out of the blue this fine, tall, chocolate, sexy ass man wit dreads walked into the door, little did I know he was going to be my angel in disguise. His name was Tee and ooooweeee he made my cookies throb wit the depth of his voice. His swag was so on point when he finally said something to me, I couldn’t respond. He was saying waitress we are ready to order. He smiled at me and I blushed so hard that i couldn’t hide it. Continue reading ‘My Perfect Man’

There is great value in contemplating our own ability to experience the capacity to love and relate. Try enjoying your own ability to relate and eventually you’ll feel comfortable communicating your experience without fear of how the other person may respond. If U are not speaking how you feel, then what are you truly speaking! Z!

If someone wants you nothing can keep them away! But if they do not want you nothing can make them stay! Do not make excuses for the behavior you receive! Embrace it for what it is and Live or Let go! Z!

Women get so tired of the lies and games that some men tend to play! We are constantly asking ourselves is it so hard for him to be honest and upfront or end up saying why me because I know I don’t deserve this. Now on the other hand ladies it is time to wake up and be more realistic! It is time to stop sitting around having these pity parties and blame who needs to be blamed YOU! Continue reading ‘Deception And Sending Mixed Signals’

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Love can be like a mirage at times, It looks like something from a far, but when you get up on it its not what it is seemed to be, Believe what you feel and do not chase what you see! Z!

Every man is very different in how he enjoys fellatio, so what works for one person may not work for another. The best thing to do is try many techniques! As a disclaimer: I don’t have a penis, so I don’t know what it feels like to get a blowjob, so I can’t promise that what I suggest will be the best for any particular male. Instead, I am relying on the low down my male friends entrusted me with. The tips that follow are a collection of personal anecdotes, experiences and lots of practice and research. Continue reading ‘How To Give A Better Blowjob (A.K.A. Fellatio)’