It’s time to take this in a different direction! We are here to talk about sex, love, relationships, etc. Me personally I don’t believe in really addressing the same topics or typical situations. Now I know people really have mixed feelings about this, and what you are about to read may not be pleasant to your beliefs, but a relationship is a relationship no matter how ugly the situation, and after recent public events I feel it may be time to address this situation as well. I was recently asked what to expect from a married man. Me personally, I say don’t, but things happen in life that we cannot plan and sometimes we can’t help who we love; and I’m sure we all have been in a situation with an individual who was married. I’m not here to be judgmental but I do want you to ask yourself why you are in this situation or want to be in this situation, and you must realize that there are no positive reasons for dating a married individual; and if you have commitment or self esteem issues you may find this to be  desirable, and sometimes it may just seem that there are no good single men available! Always make sure you have something to gain and do not mess with anyone who has nothing to lose. Forbidden relationships are often filled with desire, suspense, and excitement so outside of those basic things make sure you have something to gain whether its money, rent , tuition, shopping, trips, or jobs, I don’t care what it is just make sure it’s something that you like and enjoy. You never know what may happen in this situation so make sure he has something to lose as well. I always say keep your options open as well and date other men if your “boyfriend” is married. Men are jealous and even though he is married you are expected to be with only him. When you are doing things that he doesn’t like it’s going to be a problem; this is when you remind him or let him know that if certain things were to get exposed he will be at liberty to lose his job, family, and friends as well. Although I don’t suggest it, you never know when you may have to use the “I will call your wife card”, don’t actually do it but don’t let him think you won’t either. That’s one of the many ways to get what you want and keep him in line as well. Know all your information, find out everything there is to know about him, family and friends. Know where he works, the wife works, where they live, who the closest friends and family members are, where the kids go to school, what church and local hangouts. Don’t become a stalker, you gain nothing by driving by his house and job; but you need to know this information to protect yourself and your investments. Because you never know what is going to happen, make sure you have some type of incriminating evidence or information, so when the time comes when he decide to jump stupid or get mad he will see that you are not playing either. Now after saying the above information, don’t forget that a man married or not loves his family! I know crazy right, because if it was true he wouldn’t step out right? Wrong. There is nothing more important to a man than his family. If he is not able to care and provide for his family he does not feel like a man. So watch how you approach that situation because they will not let anything or anyone harm their family which can be an advantage and disadvantage at the same time. (Continue reading on the next page)